11/26/2021 0 Comments 10 Doubts About SexWhatever your age or experience in matters of sexuality, surely you have some doubt or question that you have never dared to comment, not even to your closest friends. Check here for more details about sex. The English popular press, which does not beat around the bush when it comes to talking about sex, recently published an article entitled "Ten questions about sex that we all want to know" , in which an expert in couple relations responded to some of the questions. doubts that, more frequently, women consult on this subject. If you are curious, you can take a look at the news in the Daily Mail . In this post we have asked our doctors Mª Fernanda Peraza , expert in sexuality, and Núria Parera , head of the Childhood and Adolescence Gynecology Unit, to answer some of these and other questions that may interest you, especially if you are young man. 1.- Are multiple orgasms a myth?
The myth is having l expectation of duty have them. Each woman experiences a different sexual response. Some may feel small orgasms of low intensity, others achieve a single orgasm and there are those that reach several of high intensity. We are easier than they to experience this sensation of repeated orgasm, but the fact of not having them does not mean anything. The best orgasm is the one that has been enjoyed. 2.- Why is it difficult for women to reach orgasm with penetration alone? There are many reasons, including: Not being focused . Anything that distracts us makes it difficult: maintaining difficult sexual positions, the unrealistic expectation of reaching orgasm at the same time, a negative self-image, wanting to control the situation, etc. The need for direct clitoral stimulation : More than 65% of women need direct clitoral stimulation to obtain orgasms. The pressure of its internal structures during penetration allows it to be stimulated vaginally, but sometimes it is necessary to stimulate it directly as well. It's a matter of getting used to it. Getting the proper posture helps a lot. Most of us need more time than they do . The female sexual response is longer and takes longer to complete. This fact, added to the need -social and invented- to want to reach orgasm at the same time is the main problem, since it shortens the phases of arousal and, many times, exposes the woman to stop having them, thinking that everything has finished when they reach it. 3.- Can young women also use the IUD? Yes. It is a long-term method of contraception, so it may be a good option for young women. But remember that to protect yourself from sexually transmitted infections you should also use a condom. Copper IUDs can make the bleeding more abundant and these are more painful, but currently there are progesterone IUDs that cause the opposite effect, that is, they reduce menstrual bleeding. 4.- Can I become “addicted” to the vibrator? No. The word addicted would not fit in this sense just because of the use of the vibrator, these devices do not produce addiction. But if we only get used to enjoying vibrators, a fixation on the device may appear that compromises the sexual response to other stimuli. In these cases it is necessary to consult the problem to an expert. 5.- Am I a lesbian if I have ever had sexual fantasies with another woman? Absolutely! Sexual orientation is not defined by the type of sexual fantasies that one has, but by the ability to establish an erotic-sexual and loving relationship with a particular gender: heterosexual if it is between different sexes, homosexual if it is the same, and bisexual if you have the same ability to have relationships of this type with both sexes. 6.- Is it dangerous to take the morning after pill repeatedly? There is no risk in taking emergency contraception repeatedly, but it should not be considered just another method of contraception, as it is simply an emergency last resort to avoid pregnancy and there are much more effective contraceptive methods. In addition, it does not protect permanently or against other subsequent risk relationships. 7.- Can a gynecologist find out if I am (or not) a virgin? It is not the role of a gynecologist to find out, and it is not something that can be determined with complete certainty on an examination. Each vulva and vagina have their own size and flexibility, and the shape and size of the hymen can also differ from one woman to another. Furthermore, although hymen rupture is associated with intercourse, this tissue is very fragile and thin and can rupture spontaneously. 8.- Is it advisable to tell our sexual fantasies to the couple? Sexual fantasies are part of your development as a person. They are a component of human desire, and can act as an erotic stimulus, regardless of whether they are put into practice or not. There is no need to feel guilt or shame, and the decision to share them or not with our partner is personal. 9.- Does oral sex carry the same risks as having vaginal intercourse? You cannot get pregnant but it does carry a risk of contagion of sexually transmitted infections, so it is advisable to use protection or barrier methods. Regarding the risk of developing some type of cancer in the oral cavity or throat, it is associated with the human papillomavirus (HPV), which can also be transmitted through this route. 10.- What is the best position to reach orgasm? The one that works best for us, according to our practice. What matters is that you feel free and, above all, very comfortable. That is why it is important to get to know each other and explore together with the couple. Sex is like a kitchen recipe: you can follow some instructions, but everyone is free to include the condiments that they want and that are most useful to improve the recipe.
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